Gender is Irrelevant
Growing up in the 1980s and 1990’s I found myself in the thralls of gender stereotypes but expected gender stereotypes and after 19 years of trying to conform I finally realized 17 years ago, gender is a fiction a farce, a fraud.
That seems like an extreme position rooted in the most right-winged conservative viewpoint, but it's actually quite the opposite. The reason for this is quite obvious but seems to elude us. Gender is just the conformity to societal stereotypes about the specific sexes.